26 Nov 2024 19:37
Navigating the Holidays After Loss: Embracing Comfort and Hope in Christ
Scripture: Matthew 11:28 (NIV)
“Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
The holidays are often filled with expectations of joy, togetherness, and celebration. But after loss, this season can feel painfully different. Empty seats, familiar traditions, and memories of what once was can make the holidays feel heavier instead of brighter. When grief is present, even joyful moments can carry a quiet ache.
If you find the holidays difficult, you are not alone—and there is nothing wrong with you. Grief does not pause for the season. It often grows louder when routines change and reminders are everywhere. Scripture does not ask us to pretend or push through our pain. Instead, Jesus offers a gentle invitation: Come to Me.
Matthew 11:28 reminds us that Christ sees our weariness. He understands the weight we carry and does not ask us to fix ourselves before coming to Him. In seasons of loss, rest may not look like happiness or celebration. Sometimes rest is simply permission to grieve, to slow down, and to let God hold what feels too heavy to carry alone.
Hope during the holidays does not mean forgetting what was lost. It means allowing Christ to meet us right where we are—with comfort that goes beyond circumstances and peace that is not dependent on the season. His presence becomes our refuge when traditions change and hearts feel tender.
As you navigate this season, give yourself grace. You may choose quieter celebrations, new traditions, or moments of solitude with God. All of it is okay. Christ walks with you through every holiday, offering steady comfort and reminding you that you are deeply loved.
Prayer
Jesus, be my peace during this season. Hold my heart when memories feel heavy and remind me that I can rest in You. Surround me with Your comfort and hope, now and always. Amen.